Dec.25 2012, posted in Children + Family
78 votes| vote as favoriteTomorrow will be our second Christmas together: really our first though with CJ as a more cognitively advanced human being. Last Christmas, he was just one month and two weeks. I can’t even remember what happened on that day, except that we had dinner/lunch at our friends’ the Messersmith’s – we are also spending this Christmas at the same place (yes, time to begin our own traditions may be this could well be the tradition. Being first generation immigrants with no family and close social ties it will take us a while to figure our own stuff out…if we stay here longer enough anyway!
So, today we decided to take a walk around the block with CJ (he loves his walks regardless of cold weather). On our way back, God treated CJ to his first snow ever – officially a white Christmas in Lancaster, PA. CJ was fascinated by the snow…he reached out and wanted to grab the flakes. It was magical! Later, when the snow had piled up about an inch or two I took him to the backyard to film him in the snow. I will be posting the video after I have it put together. Here are some of the photos of us before the snow…and some CJ shots when the snow began. Hope you like them – and Merry Christmas! PS: Sonya appears less cos she’s the shutter-buster.
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Apr.5 2012, posted in Personal
My mission, now that I live in the Lancaster city is to enjoy it to the maximum. My number one of enjoying it will be to photograph it with my phone, day in day out. So, this morning as I left home to go to my meeting in downtown Lancaster, I took an unfamiliar road. I can’t even remember it. I pulled my motorcycle next to the curb and pulled out my iPhone, snapped a few photographs that are full processed by iPhone apps and resized through photoshop to fit the dimensions of my custom blog.
This church in Lancaster is a perfect one for weddings. The location is great! Lancaster has some of the finest traditional architecture complete with exquisite brick and mortar walls. I will be photographing more of these buildings, and posting them. I also will try to keep bringing updates from my street on South Ann. So far no incidents, but I want to be able to document the life on that street, either through words but preferably through photographs – even though that might be a little too dangerous. What do you think of these photographs?
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Apr.3 2012, posted in Personal
Finally we have moved home and are now living in Lancaster city. After years of staying in Manheim township and then months in Brickerville, we have embarked on a new journey of city living, and not just anywhere but South Ann Street! Inner city!
As with any moving, this one has also been crazy.
I for one hate moving passionately but was very excited about this one. I am now close to people, a lot of people and I love that. Plus, many a ticities do happen in the city that we have usually missed. It is also cheaper in the long run. For example, the Brickerville commute was costing us about $60 in gas every week, has a large yard for maintaining etc.
There are several reasons why we have moved to the city and I am wondering if I should make a dedicated blog for it, but let me just say that for now, life is exciting, it’s a new chapter and we do love our new house. I will post some photos of the new house and the old one. We did not move with any furniture and are looking for offers. Craigslist is another place we are looking for deals.
Oh, we don’t have the Internet yet but the convenience of the city is such that I can jump on my new motorcycle and go to prince street cafe and use their wifi on my device! The photo below is an iPhone photograph taken at night.
133 votes| vote as favoriteIf you live in the city and would like to come and welcome us please do. And bring gifts!
If you live in Lancaster city or any city or have any experiences living in the city, what are they?

Nov.7 2011, posted in Newborns
175 votes| vote as favoriteBy now you are probably aware that today God blessed us with a wonderful son! On this day, Sunday November 06, this year of our Lord 2011 at exactly 11:22 am, our little sweet champ kicked out of mom’s belly, after some nine months of uncertainties, singing, crying, holding on to God, resilience, talking, despair, joy, doubt, laughter, pictures, and many other emotions. Without going so much into the past details, yesterday Sonya felt so uncomfortable or crumpy the whole day. Believe it or not, she was assisting me as usual while we shot Kara and Justin’s wedding in Strausstown, PA and Reading, PA. Her situation wasn’t serious, but we stopped a couple times as we drove so she could stretch.
As usual after the wedding, I am 300 per cent worn out. I slept immediately and despite Sonya waking me up several times at night to say she wasn’t feeling so well, I went back to sleep every time after
She did not sleep from 2 am in the morning, and packed everything we needed. At about 8am when I finally woke up, we called the doctor who advised we should drive to the hospital to have the baby checked. I had insisted to Sonya that we live most things at home as in my mind I knew we would be coming back home tonight. Incidentally, our hospital tour had been scheduled for today afternoon. When they placed the baby on monitors, it was immediately decided that in order for him to survive, they needed to take my wife to the emergency room immediately.
The few minutes seemed like hours, and for the first time, I began trembling, shaking uncontrollably, uncertain of the outcome. I started whispering sweetly to God, as if I was trying to bribe him, so He could use his power to spare both lives. We had endured 2 miscarriages in the last year, and champ always seemed threatening during the first trimester. Eventually, the nurses wheeled my son through the corridor, and as I hurriedly tugged a long to the neonatal intensive care unit, they explained to me that Sonya’s placenta was separating from (i don’t remember from what) and that he was not getting enough oxygen and had also sucked up some stuff inside his lungs. They could only manage to take out some, and the rest would be monitored in the ICU.
In the ICU, they let me hold him! I mean, he is my son, duh
The feeling was magical. The realization that this life, this precious little being was my baby, my son, the one that everyone said would change my life forever. I snapped a few newborn photos, and took a couple of videos! At some point, I complained that he wasn’t crying, but when the nurse gave him some antibiotics, he bravely let out a few screams, as i helplessly watched, wanting to go and rescue, but knowing the pain would only last a little while. Anyhow, the mother is doing very well, recovering but still in a lot of pain from the operation. Tears rolled down her face when she held the baby for the first time. Sonya is the strongest woman that I know. There are simply no words to explain her strength during this journey.
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Oct.31 2011, posted in Personal
172 votes| vote as favoriteAround 1960, the world’s population was about 3 billion. By the turn of the last century, the population had doubled! Today, the population, according to data from the UN Population Fund will hit the magic figure; 7 billion. The BBC has an online application that if you place into the box your date, month and year that you were born, it will show where you fit in the 7 billion. For example, if I were born on June 25, 1983, I was the 4,693,296,339th person to be alive, and the 79,424,999,362nd to have ever lived. Whether this algorithm is on the mark or not is very inconsequential. The fact of the matter is that humanity is around the 7 billion point now, and counting. By 2050, all things remaining constant, we will be about 9.3 billion people. If you are my age, or 35 years and below, the odds are that you could be alive; and the signs are that (if we stay with business as usual), it will be a difficult time.
Let’s bring 7 billion people into perspective. What does it really mean in very ordinary terms? It means more cars, more homes, more mouths. It means more hunger, more deforestation, more poverty, and more conflict. It means less food, less water, it simply means less of everything that we need. There is no doubt that conflicts around the world will continue to be resource based. It will not be about oil, gold or diamonds. This time, it will be about food and water. Already, we have witnessed a slew of corporations and countries running to Africa in search of cheap land and water to feed their populations. But in the places where they seek these resources, populations are growing unchecked, while resources continue to dwindle.
Poverty is very closely connected with bad environmental practices in the third world. Paradoxically, it is even worse in richer countries, where hunger, conflict and diseases are not a major worry. But in many third world countries, the tree cover has vanished due to massive encroachment on natural vegetation by local populations who lack alternative sources of energy. Environmental degradation is in all time highs, food yields have drastically declined and water sources are drying. The ramifications of climate change affect everybody, and yet, we don’t seem to be united in effecting meaningful change to bad practices and finding long term solutions. It is not lost on the whole world that the United States, the world’s biggest emitter of green house gases shied away from signing the Kyoto Protocol (1997). It is almost 20 years later and one can’t imagine the changes that could have happened had the USA taken the lead and shown commitment to this global challenge that we all face.
The solutions that Africa need are well known and they are achievable. Africa is a dumping site for old Asian vehicles, especially from Japan, and this could change if Africa invested more in durable infrastructure that would give people the confidence to start investing in newer vehicles and vehicle manufacturing plants. But this could be considered a minor problem as more than 90 percent of the Sub Saharan African population still can’t afford a used vehicle, or even costs of maintaining one. The real problem is energy for home consumption. Rural electrification in Sub Sahara Africa is at 12 percent. Yes, one, two, three…thirteen, fourteen percent! Even in Urban Sub Sahara Africa, electricity access is at about 55 percent. In short, more than 45% of the people that dwell in urban areas do not have electricity. And that’s not all, in the cities, the other 45% who have electricity, they probably don’t have it all week and sporadically experience power outages during the week. And to bring it further home, only about 5 to 10 percent of the 45 percent can afford to use the electricity for cooking, water heating, and other high electric consuming tasks.
Therefore, 90 percent of the rest of the populations in Sub Saharan Africa have their hopes fixed on trees. Not for shade, for beauty, or for the climate but for fuel or firewood. When I was consulting for the Government of Uganda and the LRA (Lord’s Resistance Army) during the Juba Peace Process, one of the recommendations I made after thoroughly touring Northern Uganda, was to mobilize the communities through radio and have them plant trees, each family a few trees every year. But like most recommendations made to the Ugandan government, it was swept under the rug. 7 billion people today, and a few million following shortly is just not cool. I don’t think that the babies in our bodies are crying out loud to have us produce them. They certainly don’t want to come to this earth that we are simply destroying. They don’t look forward to the tsunamis, the droughts, the landslides, the flooding, the climate change. I bet you, and you know it that they’d rather be where they are right now. That’s how much we have sucked!
So, where doyou fit in the 7 billion? Does it matter? Yes, it does, but only if where you fit isn’t just in the numbers, but in doing things that will consciously improve the place that we live in. We don’t own it. So we must become good stewards.












